Jayce has a theory about why he behaves badly at times. Basically, he sums it up this way -- "Mom, when I'm too hot or too cold my brain gets a crack in it and I can't control myself. When it gets back to normal I can control myself again."
And today he reiterated this point after provoking his sister. "Mom, my brain controls me. I can't do anything about it."
I began to think it was time to stop reading him his anatomy book. The book explains that the brain controls our feelings, thoughts, actions, etc. He's using this info a little too literally to avoid responsibility. I tried to explain that ultimately he's the one that controls his brain, but he refused to consider such logic (why would he? This excuse serves him so well).
But as the day progressed, I thought about this theory of his. I think he may have a point. In fact, I should alert the scientific community! Temperature fluctuations must cause bad behavoir because I'm certainly suffering that malady. The heat has literally sapped my patience and kindness, and I deserve a big Grade F for my mothering skills this past week. I am grateful that Jayce has provided me an excuse -- it's not me, it's that darn crack! Thanks, son! And to think I was feeling guilty. :)
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Summer is half over.. :) I think you are being too hard on yourself. Try some compassion and a nice cool glass of lemondade. Miss you.
Thank Jayce for me! I will let Reg know this new theory on why I behave badly! Too funny!
When he starts acting up, hand him a bucket of spackle for his crack.
I'm afraid my brain is probably in pieces by now. Too hot... and humid! Ick!
I hear your pain! And I think no matter how rotten you're feeling about the past week, like someone else said, you're being too hard on yourself. How else are we supposed to learn patience if it isn't (nearly) constantly tested??
At least that's what I keep asking myself. Sad to say, but I've stopped praying for patience anymore. When I do it seems like I get even more opportunities to perfect it than otherwise (& more guilt for not being perfect).
I love Jayce's explanation! And I really love that you read him anatomy books! How cool is that!? :)
It is hard to argue with that logic. The crack in my brain is caused by lack of sleep. He is a smart boy!
Oh, thank you Jayce!!! I needed an excuse today!
I get cracks in my brain quite often.
LOL! That is just about the best excuse I've ever heard!
What a clever little man you have. Come and visit us in Logan. It's at least 20 degrees cooler.
Jayce is a cutie! I hope he's recovering alright now! What a summer for you guys! Congrats on Jer's new job and for you getting closer to the big due date! You can do it!
I'm pretty sure my brain gets a crack in the heat as well. Which would explain all the pus flowing out of my ears all the time... :)
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